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		By: John Tabone		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[John Tabone]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Nov 2010 12:49:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Seems like a lot of people commenting on this blog can only think of Facebook when they hear the word online chatting! They are probably in their 50s/60&#039;s and have only been introduced to the intricacies of the internet world very lately. Writing on someone&#039;s Facebook wall is not chatting. Online chatting for the younger generation means mIRC, Windows Live Messenger, Skype etc etc. Facebook only introduced chatting later on, and it still has no audio/video capabilities; something that dedicated chat clients had for ages (10/15 years).]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Seems like a lot of people commenting on this blog can only think of Facebook when they hear the word online chatting! They are probably in their 50s/60&#8217;s and have only been introduced to the intricacies of the internet world very lately. Writing on someone&#8217;s Facebook wall is not chatting. Online chatting for the younger generation means mIRC, Windows Live Messenger, Skype etc etc. Facebook only introduced chatting later on, and it still has no audio/video capabilities; something that dedicated chat clients had for ages (10/15 years).</p>
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		By: *1981*		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[*1981*]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Oct 2010 10:27:45 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Has anyone heard of privacy settings?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Has anyone heard of privacy settings?</p>
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		By: K Farrugia		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[K Farrugia]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Oct 2010 22:59:59 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Has your editor doubled the length of your column?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Has your editor doubled the length of your column?</p>
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		By: ToWilma		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[ToWilma]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Oct 2010 16:33:02 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://daphnecaruanagalizia.com/2010/10/online-chatting-a-symptom-not-a-cause/#comment-64307&quot;&gt;Wilma&lt;/a&gt;.

Wilma,
The postings on Facebook, by women, about what appears to be places they like to have sex are not what you think.

There was a breast cancer awareness campaign that asked women to answer a question about where they put their handbag when the enter the house. The replies look like

&quot;I like it on the bed&quot;. &quot;I like it on the dresser&quot; etc.

&lt;strong&gt;[Daphne - That&#039;s called a nudge-nudge-wink-wink innuendo, ToWilma. You&#039;d have to be nuts to answer that sort of question. &#039;I like it on the bed&#039;? Come on. And windsurfers do it standing up.]&lt;/strong&gt;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://daphnecaruanagalizia.com/2010/10/online-chatting-a-symptom-not-a-cause/#comment-64307">Wilma</a>.</p>
<p>Wilma,<br />
The postings on Facebook, by women, about what appears to be places they like to have sex are not what you think.</p>
<p>There was a breast cancer awareness campaign that asked women to answer a question about where they put their handbag when the enter the house. The replies look like</p>
<p>&#8220;I like it on the bed&#8221;. &#8220;I like it on the dresser&#8221; etc.</p>
<p><strong>[Daphne &#8211; That&#8217;s called a nudge-nudge-wink-wink innuendo, ToWilma. You&#8217;d have to be nuts to answer that sort of question. &#8216;I like it on the bed&#8217;? Come on. And windsurfers do it standing up.]</strong></p>
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		By: red nose		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[red nose]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Oct 2010 10:18:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[It is apparent that quite a lot of people do not know how Facebook works!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is apparent that quite a lot of people do not know how Facebook works!</p>
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		By: Wilma		</title>
		<link>https://daphnecaruanagalizia.com/2010/10/online-chatting-a-symptom-not-a-cause/#comment-64307</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Wilma]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Oct 2010 19:47:38 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[There are Maltese housewives posting things on their Facebook walls about where they had sex - in the kitchen, bathroom, etc. There is no indication that it was with somebody other than their husband, but still - it has to be borne in mind that their own children and their children&#039;s friends are listed as their Facebook Friends, which means that they can follow their mothers talking about sex on their Facebook Wall.

Are these people mad? They look quite ordinary at the school gates, and now I can&#039;t see them in the same light any more. They can have sex in the kitchen as much as they like - who cares? - but the last thing they should do is speak about it in a public discussion. Maybe they think they&#039;re starring in their own version of SATC.

Then there are men in their mid-forties who are Facebook Friends with their children&#039;s schoolfriends. Can&#039;t they see how weird this is? Do the children&#039;s mothers think it&#039;s OK if some other people&#039;s daddies are &#039;friends&#039; with their kids?

Maybe it&#039;s too much to expect them to see what&#039;s weird and unsafe and what isn&#039;t, given the way some of them behave when on Facebook. They even post embarrassing and compromising pictures of their own children, without a thought as to how the children might feel about it, or how they might be teased at school.

There are also teachers who are Facebook Friends with their pupils?  What in heaven&#039;s name are they thinking?  How can those children treat their teachers with respect if they are exposed to their often inane comments, photos or trivial personal information?

The more I see, the more I despair, honestly.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are Maltese housewives posting things on their Facebook walls about where they had sex &#8211; in the kitchen, bathroom, etc. There is no indication that it was with somebody other than their husband, but still &#8211; it has to be borne in mind that their own children and their children&#8217;s friends are listed as their Facebook Friends, which means that they can follow their mothers talking about sex on their Facebook Wall.</p>
<p>Are these people mad? They look quite ordinary at the school gates, and now I can&#8217;t see them in the same light any more. They can have sex in the kitchen as much as they like &#8211; who cares? &#8211; but the last thing they should do is speak about it in a public discussion. Maybe they think they&#8217;re starring in their own version of SATC.</p>
<p>Then there are men in their mid-forties who are Facebook Friends with their children&#8217;s schoolfriends. Can&#8217;t they see how weird this is? Do the children&#8217;s mothers think it&#8217;s OK if some other people&#8217;s daddies are &#8216;friends&#8217; with their kids?</p>
<p>Maybe it&#8217;s too much to expect them to see what&#8217;s weird and unsafe and what isn&#8217;t, given the way some of them behave when on Facebook. They even post embarrassing and compromising pictures of their own children, without a thought as to how the children might feel about it, or how they might be teased at school.</p>
<p>There are also teachers who are Facebook Friends with their pupils?  What in heaven&#8217;s name are they thinking?  How can those children treat their teachers with respect if they are exposed to their often inane comments, photos or trivial personal information?</p>
<p>The more I see, the more I despair, honestly.</p>
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		By: Paul Borg		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Paul Borg]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Oct 2010 12:28:47 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[We do have a problem with boundaries. I think that this is because some of us are brought up without the ability of being analytical. You get people in their adulthood who barely know their inner self and therefore they cannot set up boundaries.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We do have a problem with boundaries. I think that this is because some of us are brought up without the ability of being analytical. You get people in their adulthood who barely know their inner self and therefore they cannot set up boundaries.</p>
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		By: Anthony Farrugia		</title>
		<link>https://daphnecaruanagalizia.com/2010/10/online-chatting-a-symptom-not-a-cause/#comment-64305</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Anthony Farrugia]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Oct 2010 10:04:09 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[http://www.lastampa.it/redazione/cmsSezioni/politica/201010articoli/59925girata.asp

 What&#039;s this about Berlusconi and another under-aged girl? Is he seeking the fountain of lost youth? No wonder his wife chucked him out and is taking him to the cleaners over alimony payments.]]></description>
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<p> What&#8217;s this about Berlusconi and another under-aged girl? Is he seeking the fountain of lost youth? No wonder his wife chucked him out and is taking him to the cleaners over alimony payments.</p>
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		By: Anthony Farrugia		</title>
		<link>https://daphnecaruanagalizia.com/2010/10/online-chatting-a-symptom-not-a-cause/#comment-64304</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Anthony Farrugia]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Oct 2010 09:49:25 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Add a webcam to the equation and you have a volatile situation.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Add a webcam to the equation and you have a volatile situation.</p>
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