[Daphne – “You nitwit.” When insults miss the mark so badly, the rest of your words lose all credibility, regardless of the argument. Insults must have some mark of accuracy if they are to be effective. And no, you do not send sympathy cards to people who have gone through a rough time. Ideally, you do not send a card at all, but a proper message, handwritten, in a letter. But needs must when the devil drives. Nice choice of nick, incidentally – he would have despised you.]