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		By: Grosvenor		</title>
		<link>https://daphnecaruanagalizia.com/2012/10/some-people-are-so-very-silly-with-facebook/#comment-463764</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Grosvenor]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Oct 2012 15:36:01 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Facebook was created to let the world know who you are, where you are, and what has become of you.  

People who are using it for other reasons are making plonkers of themselves. Case in point il-Laburisti tal-massa: Jekk taqblu ma&#039; Silvio Parnis aghfsu l-buttuna &#039;like&#039;.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Facebook was created to let the world know who you are, where you are, and what has become of you.  </p>
<p>People who are using it for other reasons are making plonkers of themselves. Case in point il-Laburisti tal-massa: Jekk taqblu ma&#8217; Silvio Parnis aghfsu l-buttuna &#8216;like&#8217;.</p>
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		By: Qeghdin Sew		</title>
		<link>https://daphnecaruanagalizia.com/2012/10/some-people-are-so-very-silly-with-facebook/#comment-462582</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Qeghdin Sew]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Oct 2012 02:40:56 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[With all due respect to many of those who regularly comment about FB and are quick to draw conclusions, but please don&#039;t make mountains out of molehills as you clearly don&#039;t know what you&#039;re talking about. Don&#039;t even claim you know how Facebook works when you clearly don&#039;t.

Having someone added as a FB contact means nothing in certain, if not most, cases. The term FB uses is &#039;friend&#039;, but that shouldn&#039;t be taken literally in the context of any online social network, as I will explain. You can accept someone&#039;s invitation to connect (thereby adding them as a &#039;friend&#039; and they will show on your friend list and them on yours), but then you might make use of the quite granular and sophisticated privacy mechanism available on FB to restrict much of your content (status updates, material shared and links recommended, photos uploaded, etc.) 

If Daphne had a FB profile under her name and she proceeds to add me as a &#039;friend&#039; because we&#039;ve done business together (we haven&#039;t), we were introduced at a social gathering (we haven&#039;t either), or she&#039;s my new boss (ditto), I might feel pressured to add her back but I might elect not to grant her full access to my personal photos or personal status updates which I wouldn&#039;t have shared with her otherwise. 

In this sense, a FB friend invitation is in actual terms simply a request for permission to view the material you share. If there is no personal information uploaded on that account, or it&#039;s deliberately withheld from certain individuals, then that &#039;friendship&#039; has no real value to any of the parties and should be considered as such. Sorry to burst your bubble, but it&#039;s no big deal if someone is on someone else&#039;s friends list. It&#039;s not like they&#039;re on speed dial or something. 

Just to give you an example, DJ Gianni, Ira Losco, and some other local celebrities (I use that term loosely) have well over 5,000+ &#039;friends&#039; on Facebook and have had to create multiple profiles because FB previously capped the number of friends to 5,000 per profile. (This policy seems to have been relaxed.) 

Lou Bondi&#039;s profile has 5,266 friends at the last count. I very much doubt he can even recognise a good 90% of them if he had to walk past them in the street. Or if he could count on each of those 5,266 people if he ever got locked out of his place in the middle of the night. 

So please learn to make that distinction.

Thank you,
The Internet]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>With all due respect to many of those who regularly comment about FB and are quick to draw conclusions, but please don&#8217;t make mountains out of molehills as you clearly don&#8217;t know what you&#8217;re talking about. Don&#8217;t even claim you know how Facebook works when you clearly don&#8217;t.</p>
<p>Having someone added as a FB contact means nothing in certain, if not most, cases. The term FB uses is &#8216;friend&#8217;, but that shouldn&#8217;t be taken literally in the context of any online social network, as I will explain. You can accept someone&#8217;s invitation to connect (thereby adding them as a &#8216;friend&#8217; and they will show on your friend list and them on yours), but then you might make use of the quite granular and sophisticated privacy mechanism available on FB to restrict much of your content (status updates, material shared and links recommended, photos uploaded, etc.) </p>
<p>If Daphne had a FB profile under her name and she proceeds to add me as a &#8216;friend&#8217; because we&#8217;ve done business together (we haven&#8217;t), we were introduced at a social gathering (we haven&#8217;t either), or she&#8217;s my new boss (ditto), I might feel pressured to add her back but I might elect not to grant her full access to my personal photos or personal status updates which I wouldn&#8217;t have shared with her otherwise. </p>
<p>In this sense, a FB friend invitation is in actual terms simply a request for permission to view the material you share. If there is no personal information uploaded on that account, or it&#8217;s deliberately withheld from certain individuals, then that &#8216;friendship&#8217; has no real value to any of the parties and should be considered as such. Sorry to burst your bubble, but it&#8217;s no big deal if someone is on someone else&#8217;s friends list. It&#8217;s not like they&#8217;re on speed dial or something. </p>
<p>Just to give you an example, DJ Gianni, Ira Losco, and some other local celebrities (I use that term loosely) have well over 5,000+ &#8216;friends&#8217; on Facebook and have had to create multiple profiles because FB previously capped the number of friends to 5,000 per profile. (This policy seems to have been relaxed.) </p>
<p>Lou Bondi&#8217;s profile has 5,266 friends at the last count. I very much doubt he can even recognise a good 90% of them if he had to walk past them in the street. Or if he could count on each of those 5,266 people if he ever got locked out of his place in the middle of the night. </p>
<p>So please learn to make that distinction.</p>
<p>Thank you,<br />
The Internet</p>
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		By: ciccio		</title>
		<link>https://daphnecaruanagalizia.com/2012/10/some-people-are-so-very-silly-with-facebook/#comment-462509</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[ciccio]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Oct 2012 01:32:28 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://daphnecaruanagalizia.com/2012/10/some-people-are-so-very-silly-with-facebook/#comment-461716&quot;&gt;Insolja&lt;/a&gt;.

And it was free of charge, and the animal lovers could not complain.]]></description>
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<p>And it was free of charge, and the animal lovers could not complain.</p>
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		By: Insolja		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Insolja]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Oct 2012 17:12:54 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[@ pas says

&quot;Will people still flock to the circus that Silvio Zammit is bringing over to Naxxar and Ghajnsielem?&quot;

The circus came to town early this year.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ pas says</p>
<p>&#8220;Will people still flock to the circus that Silvio Zammit is bringing over to Naxxar and Ghajnsielem?&#8221;</p>
<p>The circus came to town early this year.</p>
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		By: innocent bystander		</title>
		<link>https://daphnecaruanagalizia.com/2012/10/some-people-are-so-very-silly-with-facebook/#comment-461338</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[innocent bystander]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Oct 2012 13:21:38 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://daphnecaruanagalizia.com/2012/10/some-people-are-so-very-silly-with-facebook/#comment-461141&quot;&gt;dudu&lt;/a&gt;.

I would have made an exception in his case.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://daphnecaruanagalizia.com/2012/10/some-people-are-so-very-silly-with-facebook/#comment-461141">dudu</a>.</p>
<p>I would have made an exception in his case.</p>
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		By: innocent bystander		</title>
		<link>https://daphnecaruanagalizia.com/2012/10/some-people-are-so-very-silly-with-facebook/#comment-461320</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[innocent bystander]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Oct 2012 13:10:21 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://daphnecaruanagalizia.com/2012/10/some-people-are-so-very-silly-with-facebook/#comment-459610&quot;&gt;pas&lt;/a&gt;.

A rare 400kg white tiger?

You bet.

Maybe it&#039;ll get peckish and have his arm off.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://daphnecaruanagalizia.com/2012/10/some-people-are-so-very-silly-with-facebook/#comment-459610">pas</a>.</p>
<p>A rare 400kg white tiger?</p>
<p>You bet.</p>
<p>Maybe it&#8217;ll get peckish and have his arm off.</p>
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		By: dudu		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[dudu]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Oct 2012 11:31:15 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&quot;All Maltese don&#039;t agree with abortion ...&quot; Muscat said.

Isn&#039;t that a gross generalisation?


http://www.maltatoday.com.mt/en/newsdetails/news/national/Muscat-reiterates-that-Tonio-Borg-nomination-will-face-problems-over-anti-gay-statements-20121027]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;All Maltese don&#8217;t agree with abortion &#8230;&#8221; Muscat said.</p>
<p>Isn&#8217;t that a gross generalisation?</p>
<p><a href="http://www.maltatoday.com.mt/en/newsdetails/news/national/Muscat-reiterates-that-Tonio-Borg-nomination-will-face-problems-over-anti-gay-statements-20121027" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.maltatoday.com.mt/en/newsdetails/news/national/Muscat-reiterates-that-Tonio-Borg-nomination-will-face-problems-over-anti-gay-statements-20121027</a></p>
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		By: Grosvenor		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Grosvenor]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Oct 2012 11:28:21 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Some people think no one is watching Facebook.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Some people think no one is watching Facebook.</p>
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		By: dudu		</title>
		<link>https://daphnecaruanagalizia.com/2012/10/some-people-are-so-very-silly-with-facebook/#comment-461125</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[dudu]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Oct 2012 11:20:25 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://daphnecaruanagalizia.com/2012/10/some-people-are-so-very-silly-with-facebook/#comment-459699&quot;&gt;Toula&lt;/a&gt;.

Alfred Sant nesa&#039; jghid li &#039;hbieb tal-hbieb&#039; mhijiex xi kultura politika partikolari ghal PN biss imma hija kultura tal-politika ta&#039; Malta in generali. 

Anki l-membri tal-partit ta&#039; Sant, mill-oppozizzjoni kienu jhaddnu din il-kultura, kif hareg car fil-kaz li irrapporta il-gurnalist tal-Independent Noel Grima fuq Dalli u Noel Farrugia (MP Labour) li gara fl-2004.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://daphnecaruanagalizia.com/2012/10/some-people-are-so-very-silly-with-facebook/#comment-459699">Toula</a>.</p>
<p>Alfred Sant nesa&#8217; jghid li &#8216;hbieb tal-hbieb&#8217; mhijiex xi kultura politika partikolari ghal PN biss imma hija kultura tal-politika ta&#8217; Malta in generali. </p>
<p>Anki l-membri tal-partit ta&#8217; Sant, mill-oppozizzjoni kienu jhaddnu din il-kultura, kif hareg car fil-kaz li irrapporta il-gurnalist tal-Independent Noel Grima fuq Dalli u Noel Farrugia (MP Labour) li gara fl-2004.</p>
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		By: Smokescreen		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Smokescreen]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Oct 2012 11:06:43 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Seems that Mr. Kessler has a SMOKING gun.

http://www.timesofmalta.com/articles/view/20121027/local/-Evidence-Dalli-knew-what-was-going-on-.442763]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Seems that Mr. Kessler has a SMOKING gun.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.timesofmalta.com/articles/view/20121027/local/-Evidence-Dalli-knew-what-was-going-on-.442763" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.timesofmalta.com/articles/view/20121027/local/-Evidence-Dalli-knew-what-was-going-on-.442763</a></p>
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