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		By: katerina		</title>
		<link>https://daphnecaruanagalizia.com/2014/03/the-best-comment-so-far-about-this-situation/#comment-1663077</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[katerina]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2014 10:06:59 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Il-kummiedji fl-iskejjel Maltin ilhom ghaddejin!

Way back in the 90s I went to a girls&#039; secondary school and I still remember those teachers who lacked dignity.  

A girl who was crazy about the guidance teacher fixed two appointments weekly with him or even more.  Being a guidance teacher himself couldn&#039;t he notice that this girl was simply mad about him and all she wanted was to be alone with him?

Our handsome art teacher dancing to slow music with one of the pupils during the farewell party - again, this girl had been aching for this moment the whole year. 

Another teacher who was not young at all spent all the break hours chatting with the same girl.  

Things keep repeating because there is no one shaking these irresponsible teachers.

I know another case which happened in another state school where a pupil and her teacher started seeing each other secretly.  Once she left school the relationship continued in the open till they got married.  The teacher involved is now a headmaster.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Il-kummiedji fl-iskejjel Maltin ilhom ghaddejin!</p>
<p>Way back in the 90s I went to a girls&#8217; secondary school and I still remember those teachers who lacked dignity.  </p>
<p>A girl who was crazy about the guidance teacher fixed two appointments weekly with him or even more.  Being a guidance teacher himself couldn&#8217;t he notice that this girl was simply mad about him and all she wanted was to be alone with him?</p>
<p>Our handsome art teacher dancing to slow music with one of the pupils during the farewell party &#8211; again, this girl had been aching for this moment the whole year. </p>
<p>Another teacher who was not young at all spent all the break hours chatting with the same girl.  </p>
<p>Things keep repeating because there is no one shaking these irresponsible teachers.</p>
<p>I know another case which happened in another state school where a pupil and her teacher started seeing each other secretly.  Once she left school the relationship continued in the open till they got married.  The teacher involved is now a headmaster.</p>
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		By: Jozef		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jozef]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Mar 2014 21:01:21 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m not a parent, but all those implying that everything&#039;s fine between a 23-year-old and a 15-year-old are lying to themselves, and they know it.

When I was in the fourth year at university, I remember looking back at being 17 and thinking what a fragile thing I was - let alone 15. 

That&#039;s the age of discovery, the only way it can be healthy, dramatic, distressing sometimes but true, is with actual contemporaries. Which is why this man had no place in her life. Indeed &lt;em&gt;he&lt;/em&gt; was definitely aware it wasn&#039;t right. 

At 23, I had no interest in any girl younger than 20. 

If they think they&#039;ve seen it all simply because they&#039;ve been saturated with the internet, they still haven&#039;t got the mental instruments to cope, and perhaps never will. The fact they defend him betrays their wish to filter reality and its horrors. 

It&#039;s not right, even if they say so.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m not a parent, but all those implying that everything&#8217;s fine between a 23-year-old and a 15-year-old are lying to themselves, and they know it.</p>
<p>When I was in the fourth year at university, I remember looking back at being 17 and thinking what a fragile thing I was &#8211; let alone 15. </p>
<p>That&#8217;s the age of discovery, the only way it can be healthy, dramatic, distressing sometimes but true, is with actual contemporaries. Which is why this man had no place in her life. Indeed <em>he</em> was definitely aware it wasn&#8217;t right. </p>
<p>At 23, I had no interest in any girl younger than 20. </p>
<p>If they think they&#8217;ve seen it all simply because they&#8217;ve been saturated with the internet, they still haven&#8217;t got the mental instruments to cope, and perhaps never will. The fact they defend him betrays their wish to filter reality and its horrors. </p>
<p>It&#8217;s not right, even if they say so.</p>
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		By: Distressed		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Distressed]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Mar 2014 17:18:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[As myself a parent I agree with Veronica&#039;s comments but it is not correct stating that her classmates knew what was happening.  As a matter of fact very few knew about this &#039;close friendship&#039; with most of the children getting to know about it after the tragic event.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As myself a parent I agree with Veronica&#8217;s comments but it is not correct stating that her classmates knew what was happening.  As a matter of fact very few knew about this &#8216;close friendship&#8217; with most of the children getting to know about it after the tragic event.</p>
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		By: M. Cassar		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[M. Cassar]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Mar 2014 13:38:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://daphnecaruanagalizia.com/2014/03/the-best-comment-so-far-about-this-situation/#comment-1657891&quot;&gt;Nerd of Redhead Dancing&lt;/a&gt;.

Touché.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://daphnecaruanagalizia.com/2014/03/the-best-comment-so-far-about-this-situation/#comment-1657891">Nerd of Redhead Dancing</a>.</p>
<p>Touché.</p>
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		By: Francis Saliba M.D.		</title>
		<link>https://daphnecaruanagalizia.com/2014/03/the-best-comment-so-far-about-this-situation/#comment-1659479</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Francis Saliba M.D.]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Mar 2014 06:51:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://daphnecaruanagalizia.com/2014/03/the-best-comment-so-far-about-this-situation/#comment-1658075&quot;&gt;socrates&lt;/a&gt;.

A society that tolerates stage pornography as some sort of desirable art form would be asking for trouble from this sort of seduction of young pupils by their more &quot;experienced&quot; tutors.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://daphnecaruanagalizia.com/2014/03/the-best-comment-so-far-about-this-situation/#comment-1658075">socrates</a>.</p>
<p>A society that tolerates stage pornography as some sort of desirable art form would be asking for trouble from this sort of seduction of young pupils by their more &#8220;experienced&#8221; tutors.</p>
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		By: Francis Saliba M.D.		</title>
		<link>https://daphnecaruanagalizia.com/2014/03/the-best-comment-so-far-about-this-situation/#comment-1659462</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Francis Saliba M.D.]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Mar 2014 06:44:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[If it is a fact that &quot; ... this man’s pupils ... are all clearly in his thrall&quot; should be a frightening eye-opener for the parents of young children who evidently would be in similar moral and physical danger at the mercy of other  dishonourable &quot;educators&quot; who shockingly and unbelievably still find some odd crank to put up some defense for their evil deeds.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If it is a fact that &#8221; &#8230; this man’s pupils &#8230; are all clearly in his thrall&#8221; should be a frightening eye-opener for the parents of young children who evidently would be in similar moral and physical danger at the mercy of other  dishonourable &#8220;educators&#8221; who shockingly and unbelievably still find some odd crank to put up some defense for their evil deeds.</p>
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		By: Sistina		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sistina]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Mar 2014 00:07:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://daphnecaruanagalizia.com/2014/03/the-best-comment-so-far-about-this-situation/#comment-1658114&quot;&gt;Manuel&lt;/a&gt;.

Well said!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://daphnecaruanagalizia.com/2014/03/the-best-comment-so-far-about-this-situation/#comment-1658114">Manuel</a>.</p>
<p>Well said!</p>
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		By: Joe Fenech		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Joe Fenech]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Mar 2014 23:47:25 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Aren&#039;t teachers CRB (don&#039;t know what that is in Maltese) checked? This applies to mainstream schools, after-school clubs, drama companies, arts school, band clubs and so forth.

This was another case that happened as a result of the low standards in child protection.

http://www.timesofmalta.com/articles/view/20120802/local/music-teacher-accused-of-having-sex-with-student-13.431241]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Aren&#8217;t teachers CRB (don&#8217;t know what that is in Maltese) checked? This applies to mainstream schools, after-school clubs, drama companies, arts school, band clubs and so forth.</p>
<p>This was another case that happened as a result of the low standards in child protection.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.timesofmalta.com/articles/view/20120802/local/music-teacher-accused-of-having-sex-with-student-13.431241" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.timesofmalta.com/articles/view/20120802/local/music-teacher-accused-of-having-sex-with-student-13.431241</a></p>
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		By: Peritocracy		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Peritocracy]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Mar 2014 23:34:08 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://daphnecaruanagalizia.com/2014/03/the-best-comment-so-far-about-this-situation/#comment-1657891&quot;&gt;Nerd of Redhead Dancing&lt;/a&gt;.

It would be nice if he got to entertain fellow inmates with his acts.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://daphnecaruanagalizia.com/2014/03/the-best-comment-so-far-about-this-situation/#comment-1657891">Nerd of Redhead Dancing</a>.</p>
<p>It would be nice if he got to entertain fellow inmates with his acts.</p>
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		By: Anthony		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Anthony]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Mar 2014 23:14:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Veronica makes a very valid point indeed.

My children are all older than this weirdo so, unlike Veronica, I am not frightened. 

I am deeply shocked though.

I hereby urge all parents with a modicum of intelligence to start asking questions and to expect genuine answers.

From the school in question, from any other school and from the Education Department.

Who is responsible for this tragic mess?

Who is responsible for taking measures to try and ensure, as best they can, that whatever happened in Dingli does not happen again?

I expect the Education Ministry and Department to come down like a ton of bricks on the likes of this miserable freak who are in any way involved with children in education.

I, for one, expect no more and no less.

Evarist Bartolo, you have no part in this tragedy, but I expect that you do your duty in the appalling circumstances.

Weed all the perverts out of the country&#039;s education system.

Whether they are taghna lkoll or not. Whether they are priests, monks or nuns. Whether they are actors, cool or simply liberal. LGBT or straight.

You have the ways and means to do it.

Please rid our children and grandchildren of this filth.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Veronica makes a very valid point indeed.</p>
<p>My children are all older than this weirdo so, unlike Veronica, I am not frightened. </p>
<p>I am deeply shocked though.</p>
<p>I hereby urge all parents with a modicum of intelligence to start asking questions and to expect genuine answers.</p>
<p>From the school in question, from any other school and from the Education Department.</p>
<p>Who is responsible for this tragic mess?</p>
<p>Who is responsible for taking measures to try and ensure, as best they can, that whatever happened in Dingli does not happen again?</p>
<p>I expect the Education Ministry and Department to come down like a ton of bricks on the likes of this miserable freak who are in any way involved with children in education.</p>
<p>I, for one, expect no more and no less.</p>
<p>Evarist Bartolo, you have no part in this tragedy, but I expect that you do your duty in the appalling circumstances.</p>
<p>Weed all the perverts out of the country&#8217;s education system.</p>
<p>Whether they are taghna lkoll or not. Whether they are priests, monks or nuns. Whether they are actors, cool or simply liberal. LGBT or straight.</p>
<p>You have the ways and means to do it.</p>
<p>Please rid our children and grandchildren of this filth.</p>
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