For many things you don’t need to speak.

Tosh. She’s the one who is like her father.

In many cultures, like Latin america, north of the Mediterranean, Slavic countries, India and sub-Saharan countries a man can show off his male prowess in his ability to dance. The Russian army and the Zulu soldiers are prime examples.

On a personal note, I stay away from anything that resembles a dance. Please, do not excuse yourself as you are perfectly right. A man needs a couple of nights per week for himself.