That’s sadism, not ‘animal cruelty’

Published: July 12, 2009 at 10:23am

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A cat has been found dead with a piece of jagged pipe twisted round its neck.

Some people have seen this as evidence of cruelty to animals, but I don’t think so.

It looks like evidence of sadism, and anyone with a sadistic bent is going to vent his urges on any living thing he is able to.

It is unlikely that he can get away with twisting some sharp tubing round the neck of one of his work colleagues, or whoever else might happen to have attracted his sadistic attentions, and so he exercises his passions on a cat instead.

Dogs are a little more difficult. They snarl and they bite, and there are fewer of them around in the streets.

I don’t know why anyone is surprised, really. There was a group of boys a few years older than me, when I was a child in Sliema, who used to get their thrills from disembowelling stray cats and otherwise torturing them. And in case you’re wondering, the answer is no, they didn’t turn out all right in the long run, though for many years they maintained the pretence of normality with wives and children and cars and flats and the rest of it.

They also had a reputation for bullying the smaller boys at school. Never marry a man who has a history replete with tortured cats, girls.

Cruelty to animals is something else again. It is, I suspect, largely the result of failing to consider animals as sentient beings – and so it doesn’t matter if they are kept without shelter from sun and rain, with not enough food or water, or in spaces that are too small for them.

There is a marked difference between this kind of thinking and behaviour and actually torturing a cat to death with a piece of jagged pipe for the sheer hell of it.

The first kind of person can possibly be made to see things in a different light through help and education – but as for the second kind of person, forget it. That’s a case for the psychiatrists, and as can be seen from the large numbers of sadistic murderers in prisons the world over, even they can’t really help.

It’s going to be impossible to identify the man who tortured that cat, but let’s say he could be identified. Why would that be desirable?

It is not, as the ‘animal cruelty’ people say, so that he may be fined and made an example of. No, I see it differently. I would wish that man to be identified, even if he cannot be prosecuted, because he needs to be monitored.

Whoever he is, he is clearly disturbed, and may turn to other releases for his sadism before long, if he hasn’t done so already.

Man or boy

You might think it strange that I’ve assumed it’s a man (or boy). I may, of course, be terribly wrong – but in my experience of life so far, I have met many boys and men with these tendencies, but absolutely no girls or women. Let’s say that Myra Hindley became an icon of evil precisely because she was seen as the exception that proved the rule.

There have been other women like her – more recent cases – who aided and abetted their men in the sexual abuse and torture of girls, boys and other women, but the key words here are ‘aided and abetted’. The women got nothing out of it themselves except the vague and largely futile hope that collaboration with their man would help them hang onto him.

As to why they should want to hang onto a man like that, speculation on their psychology defeats me completely.

The tickets are cheap but so are The People

There was a letter in a newspaper some days ago from one of the individuals who, before Renzo Piano’s plans were revealed, campaigned actively for a theatre on the opera house site. He is now devoting his energies to campaigning for a theatre with a roof.

His letter struck me because it was one of complaint that he was asked for the princely sum of €20 for a ticket to watch, at the Argotti Gardens, a live transmission of a performance at Covent Garden, featuring Joseph Calleja.

Though this man has a very decent income, he protested that €20 are exorbitant, and so he refused to buy a ticket (which was then bought by somebody else, but never mind). He argued that charging €20 is no way to bring opera to The People, and that such events should be offered free of charge.

It escaped his notice that if this were to happen, then The People will end up paying for the events whether they go to them or not, through their taxes.

But that is a minor detail. The more interesting point is that this is the mindset of those who argued most vociferously for a concert hall, an opera house, a multi-functional arts centre: we demand that it be set up, but we are not going to pay for tickets. The qamel is unbelievable.

Still more unbelievable is the failure to understand basic human psychology. Free performances attract greater numbers of people who like that kind of performance to start with, but they will not draw in people who are not attracted to that particular genre.

Let’s just say that wild horses wouldn’t drag people who are bored by opera to a performance of opera, even if it is free of charge. On the other hand, if you paid them to go, you might find some takers, but even then, most opera-haters would probably find something better to do of a Saturday night than sit through three hours of what they perceive to be utter tedium for the small remuneration of €20.

The Isle of MTV concert was free, but I didn’t go – nor did any of my friends. We also forget that there is a time and place for everything, including different types of music, and it is as difficult to get people in their teens and 20s to ‘appreciate’ opera as it is to get their parents and grandparents to appreciate anything that might be going on at the Isle of MTV.

Let me be honest here: if, at 20, I had met a man my age who liked opera and talked about it with passion, I would have run a mile, unless he had a reason for liking it in that he was involved himself (and even that would have been terribly off-putting). At this age, I obviously don’t see a love of opera as a sign of mental aberration or perversion in a person.

Now, the ones from whom I feel an urge to flee are contemporaries who try too hard by enthusing about the Isle of MTV concert and even – horrors – going there and standing packed in among the kids in their ‘hotpents’ (or maybe the hotpants are the reason they go in the first place).

And before somebody brings up the subject of free entrance to museums, which draws larger crowds, this is the answer: human psychology, again. People will go to a free exhibition out of curiosity because they are able to move around and know that they can leave after five minutes if they want to.

Yet they will not submit themselves to being trapped in a seat and unable to leave unless they are certain they are going to enjoy the experience.

This article is published in The Malta Independent on Sunday today.




15 Comments Comment

  1. Ganni says:

    I agree with you on this one, Daphne. Truly disturbed minds. Today it’s a cat, tomorrow it might be a wife, a disabled person, some old lady or who knows, maybe some “klandestini”.

  2. Tonio Farrugia says:

    This is unrelated to your latest post, but I have to put it somewhere, unless you create a space for your readers to contribute random thoughts!

    “Saviour Balzan calls for probe after €88k public fund handout exposed”

    How’s that for double standards? It’s OK for your favourite hack to “expose” other parties, but God forbid anybody should dare look at his operation!

    http://www.timesofmalta.com/articles/view/20090712/local/saviour-balzan-calls-for-probe-after-euro-88k-public-fund-handout-exposed

    [Daphne – I was out all day yesterday, and coincidentally, that was the first thing I planned to upload this morning. I agree with you.]

  3. Darren says:

    Melinda Loveless, Laurie Tackett, Mary Brunner, Susan Atkins, Patricia Krenwinkel, Leslie Van Houten also committed horrifying murders.

  4. I was born after the war but grew up hearing relations talking about the opera house. How splendid the setting was, the elegance of the patrons, how only the elite even thought of going etc etc.

    However, many admit the reality is very different today and the number of people willing to pay EUR30 (or so) to watch a performance is limited.

    Joseph Calleja’s concerts are different – the fact that he is Maltese attracts many people who wouldn’t dream of going just to hear a foreign tenor singing. Neither would they go if the tenor was Maltese but not of international stature.

    I really don’t think my taxes should be used to finance someone else’s entertainment.

    By the way I saw Astrid on Favorite Chanel – she still thinks parliament should be housed in some palazzo thus raising the ‘ambjent’ in the lower part of Valletta.

    • Milone says:

      EUR30 is a bargain. Ticket prices for performances at La Scala and the Royal Opera House cost far, far more. EUR100 might get you a back seat in a shared box with a restricted view – if you’re lucky, that is.

    • Ganni says:

      “how only the elite even thought of going”…not really. Matinees were particularly popular with people from villages and the countryside. It would have been impossible to have barely acceptable attendance for every performance if only the elite went.

      [Daphne – Tajjeb wisq. So what The People want is a species of Catholic Institute for our own times, designed by Renzo Piano, in which we can have Zeza tal-Flagship revivals.]

  5. C Attard says:

    Hi Daph,

    ever wondered what a cat sounds like when it’s being killed? Have a look at this – Malta’s answer to Susan Boyle:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uJ2JvoN2L1Q

    • jenny says:

      Amazing. Who on earth told her that she could sing.

      • Alex says:

        No! but seriously…I’m very disturbed by this. First I was mortified for the young lady “ghax miskina everyone should be given a chance”; then I said “za***b” ten times over (with that grinding voice still stabbing at my senses). How dare she be allowed to perform? How is it that someone, somewhere, gave her so much as an ounce of encouragement to go on TV and take up 5 minutes of air time? How is it that the NET TV people could even contemplate giving her a nod of approval and the 3-2-1-GO sign? How is it that the cameraman didn’t resign when he was given no choice but to keep the red button pressed? How is it that her family didn’t ground her for 7 years when she expressed an intention to become a sinker fuq it-telefixin?

  6. rose says:

    I once had a boy in my class (I teach 12-year-olds) who explained to me how he loved hanging two cats by their hind legs, next to each other, and let them fight it out until one of them killed the other. It was shocking hearing all the details, but when I tried to talk some sense into him, he always tried to make fun of me instead. As the years passed, I got to know what a hooligan he had turned out to be. So yes, Daphne, I agree with you 100 per cent: these people need help to overcome their sadism.

  7. I think a child like the one Rose describes should have been reported and given help from an early age.
    I once saw a group of boys aged about 10 teasing and throwing things at a large alsation that was tied up in a garage just next door to their school. I’m normally very timid but I went up to them and asked “Shall I untie the dog?” I then told them I was going to report them to the headmaster which I did. Sadism at such a young age is horrific.

  8. Carla Sidella says:

    @Rose
    What stopped you from reporting the boy?

  9. Clive says:

    Daphne hits the nail on the head with this article. This sort of behaviour is the sign of a disturbed, dangerous mind.
    My grandad used to tell his daughters “never marry a man who beats his dog, because one day he may well beat you”.
    Sensible chap…..

  10. Janine says:

    Mandy – We know the Gozitans are unique – The “cave” dog story and now this: two dogs dumped in a skip inside a dog-food sack, poisoned and left to die screeching and fitting in agony. A kitten taken to the police station with a severe eye infection which led to the loss of an eye. I suspect the poisoned dogs were some sort of vendetta “Gozo style”.

    A long time ago when any form of animal cruelty was ever reported, the same Gozitans had their own special way of disposing their dogs, by digging a deep hole which would lead to the sea and just chuck live unwanted dogs into it. It seems these people never change.

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